BDSM Gears
BDSM Gear at Lovva is the complete collection for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism play. Spanning restraints, blindfolds, gags, paddles, floggers, electro sex toys, collars, harnesses, nipple toys, chastity devices, and complete bondage kits, the collection covers every entry point and experience level from curious first-timers through to players building a serious toolkit. Everything in the range is chosen for quality, safety, and the ability to deliver a genuine, consensual experience.
About BDSM Play
BDSM is an umbrella term covering a broad spectrum of consensual power exchange, restraint, sensation, and role dynamic play. What connects the different elements is consent, communication, and the deliberate exploration of sensation and control. At its core, good BDSM play requires trust between participants, clear boundaries, and the knowledge to use each piece of gear safely. The collection at Lovva reflects this: products chosen because they work reliably, instructions that can be followed, and a range accessible enough for beginners while deep enough for experienced players.
What Is in the Collection
Restraints and handcuffs cover wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, under-bed restraint systems, and hogtie connectors in materials from soft fabric and faux leather through to metal. Restraint play is one of the most common entry points into BDSM. Blindfolds and sensory deprivation use the removal of sight to heighten every other sensation. A blindfold is one of the simplest and most effective tools in any BDSM kit. Gags and muzzles restrict vocalisation as part of power exchange scenes, available in ball gag, ring gag, and bit formats. Paddles, floggers, whips, and ticklers cover the impact and sensation play spectrum from light teasing through to more intense impact. Collars and bondage collars function as both a symbolic ownership marker and a functional restraint component in many BDSM dynamics. Harnesses provide full-body or upper-body restraint and aesthetic framing and are used in both bondage and strap-on contexts. Nipple and clitoral toys within the BDSM range focus on sensation play through clamps, suction, and electro stimulation. Electro sex toys from Zeus Electrosex deliver controlled electrical stimulation for a sensation format entirely unlike vibration or pressure. Chastity and cock and ball toys support orgasm denial and power exchange dynamics. Bondage kits bundle multiple items for a complete beginner or intermediate toolkit in a single purchase.
Find BDSM gear in the BDSM gear and bondage kits collections at Lovva.
Choosing BDSM Gear
Start with a bondage kit if you are new to BDSM. Kits bundle the essentials together at better value than buying individual pieces and give you a range of items to explore without committing to a specific play style before you know what you enjoy. A standard beginner kit typically includes wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and a feather tickler or light flogger.
Establish consent, safe words, and boundaries before any scene. This is not optional. A safe word allows the restrained or submissive partner to stop the scene immediately and without ambiguity. A physical safe signal such as dropping a held object should be agreed for situations where a gag is in use. Check in regularly during play, especially with a new partner or a new piece of gear.
Always have safety scissors accessible during restraint play. Safety scissors allow quick, safe release from restraints in any situation. Never leave a restrained person unsupervised. Avoid restraints that restrict circulation and check the skin and extremities periodically during longer sessions.
For electrostimulation, start with a beginner e-stim kit and the lowest intensity setting. Do not use e-stim products above the waist except for nipple play at low settings, and never use on the head, face, or neck. Do not use if you have a pacemaker or heart condition.
The Lovva blog on how to explore BDSM safely is essential reading before beginning any BDSM or restraint play, whether you are new to the space or returning to it with a new partner.
Caring for BDSM Gear
Clean metal restraints and hardware by wiping with isopropyl alcohol or boiling where appropriate. Wipe faux leather and fabric restraints with a damp cloth and mild soap and allow to dry completely before storing. Clean silicone components with warm water and mild soap. Inspect all restraint hardware, buckles, and connectors before every use and do not use any item showing signs of wear, cracking, or weakened connection points. Store gear in a dry location away from direct sunlight.
Shop BDSM Gear at Lovva
Lovva stocks a comprehensive range of BDSM gear across all play categories and experience levels. All orders ship Australia-wide and internationally in discreet, unbranded packaging. Browse the full BDSM Gear collection above to find restraints, sensation play tools, collars, harnesses, electro gear, and complete bondage kits.
BDSM Gear at Lovva is the complete collection for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism play. Spanning restraints, blindfolds, gags, paddles, floggers, electro sex toys, collars, harnesses, nipple toys, chastity devices, and complete bondage kits, the collection covers every...
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Vendor:Experience ultimate comfort and control with this luscious adjustable strap-on harness. Designed to fit UK sizes 6 to 28 (54cm to 130cm with extender), it ensures a secure fit for all body types. The extender doubles as a bondage restraint, adding extra versatility to...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Experience ultimate comfort and control with this luscious adjustable strap-on harness. Designed to fit UK sizes 6 to 28 (54cm to 130cm with extender), it ensures a secure fit for all body types. The extender doubles as a bondage restraint, adding extra versatility to...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Fully adjustable to fit UK sizes 4-30 (waist up to 59"/150cm) 2 interchangeable O-rings for full dildo-compatibility Perfect for pegging or any strap-on fun Bullet pocket to provide external stimulation for wearer Machine washable Material: PVC with Nylon O rings made from SiliconeRegular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Loving Joy Under the bed restraint set Easy to set up and use Easy release restraints 4 cuffs for wrists and ankles Sturdy material Comfortable to wear Secure straps Cuffs have adjustable circumference Fit under double bed 185x155 cmRegular price $59.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Equip yourself with your favourite pleasure tool with the Loving Joy Elastic Harness. Just slip into this one-size-fits-most harness and attach a vibrating or non-vibrating dildo with the help of the sturdy O-ring. Don't get your panties in a twist, get them into position...Regular price $59.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Pair of black door jam cuffs 2 wrist cuffs with strap and jam block Sturdy material Comfortable to wear Secure velcro straps for easy release Cuffs have adjustable circumferenceRegular price $49.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Black wrist restraints for bondage play Soft restraints ideal for beginners Secure Velcro straps for easy release and comfort Adjustable circumferenceRegular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Buy the Loving Joy Beginners Bondage Kit Black today! Bondage Kit includes: Handcuffs with chain Ankle cuffs with chain Breathable ball gag Collar Leash Blindfold Whip RopeRegular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:A 2 piece chain choker leash, satin elastic butt harness with side garters featuring rose gold hardware and matching wrist restraints. Features: Sexy elastic harness suitable for BDSM role play One size Hand wash recommendedRegular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Get tied up with the silky bondage rope from Bound to Please! This twine twisted rope has zero stretch for safe and easy restraint. Perfect for those exploring shibari as well as experts, this bondage rope is a must-have restraint! Product features: 10 metre...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Get restrained with these incredibly durable and comfortable silicone cuffs. Made from smooth silicone, they are hypoallergenic, and suitable for vegans and vegetarians. The packlockable, adjustable cuffs are perfect for beginners and experts alike, the soft feeling silicone means that they are comfortable to...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Traditional riding crop with body-safe silicone tip Suitable for vegetarians and for those with an aversion to leather Ideal for impact play beginners Flexible shaft makes for satisfying sting Total length: 41cm/16" Tip width: 5.5cm/2.16"Regular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:High quality silicone spanking paddle for advanced impact play Delivers deep thud sensation felt throughout the body Two different sides enable different sensations - smooth and textured side Raised diamond shaped nods to leave lasting impression Ergonomically designed handle Storage loop for easy hanging...Regular price $64.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:The Bound to Please Silicone Collar and Lead Set is perfect for controlling your sub. The durable and comfortable silicone set is perfect for lengthy bondage play, and serious S and M sessions. A perfect alternative to leather bondage, this silicone collar and lead...Regular price $89.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Black faux leather riding crop for impact play Ideal for beginners and novice BDSM players Wide, faux leather slapper tip for sharp slaps delivering a light thwack sensations and sound Medium length, flexible stem for close-counter strikes Durable, comfortable handle for secure grip Handy...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Make sure that nothing is off the cuffs with the stylish Bound to Please Red Wrist Cuffs. Restrict and control your partner's movements with these beautiful, high gloss finished red wrist restraints that were designed with beginner BDSM players in mind. These slim cuffs...Regular price $49.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Make sure that there's no wiggle room with these beautiful Bound to Please Red Ankle Cuffs. Ideal for beginners, these restraints were made with new BDSM players in mind, but they will make for an eye-catching piece added to any existing bondage equipment collection...Regular price $59.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Introducing the Bound to Please Open Eyed Hood, a captivating accessory that combines sensory deprivation with the tantalizing allure of wide-eyed anticipation. Meticulously designed and crafted, this hood is perfect for those seeking an exhilarating blend of restriction and heightened sensory experiences. The Bound...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Experience intensified sensations with the Bound to Please Multi-Strand Spanking Cane. This unique implement combines eight individual canes, artfully wrapped together to deliver a broader and more exhilarating impact. Crafted from durable natural rattan and featuring a comfortable, secure handle wrapped in sleek PU...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:The Bound to Please Furry Collar and Lead Set is great for controlling your partner. The collar is lined with soft faux fur for comfortable and lengthy bondage play. A perfect alternative to leather bondage, this collar and lead set is suitable for vegetarians...Regular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Introducing the Bound to Please Executioner Bondage Hood, a captivating blend of mystery and dominance that will take your bondage experiences to new heights. Designed with the utmost attention to detail and crafted from premium-quality PU, this hood is the epitome of dark allure...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Introducing the Bound to Please Dog Mask Hood, the ultimate accessory for playful pups and their human companions! Designed with meticulous attention to detail and crafted from high-quality PU, this dog mask is perfect for adding a touch of excitement and adventure to your...Regular price $119.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:This Bondage Rope from Bound to Please is a sturdy restraint that won't harm the skin. Perfect for practising Shibari, knot tying or to restrain your lover, this bondage rope is very versatile. It's durable and soft and great for beginner's and the intermediate.Regular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Introducing the Bound to Please Blackout Bondage Hood, a tantalizing accessory that plunges you into a world of sensory deprivation and heightened sensations. Carefully designed and meticulously crafted, this hood is perfect for those seeking an exhilarating experience of complete darkness and surrender. The...Regular price $94.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Introducing the Bound to Play Heavy Duty Furry Handcuffs, these cuffs are designed to provide the perfect balance of strength and comfort, ensuring that you and your partner can explore your wildest fantasies with ease. These handcuffs feature a sturdy metal construction that ensures...Regular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Experience the ultimate in sensory play with the Bound to Play Eye Mask and Feather Tickler Play Kit. This kit includes two essential accessories for exploring your sensual side: a luxurious eye mask and an exquisite feather tickler. This kit is perfect for those...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Take your bondage play to the next level with the Bound to Play Silicone Ball Gag. Featuring a solid silicone ball and durable faux leather straps, this gag is perfect for those with some bondage experience. The integrated O-rings provide versatile options for bondage...Regular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Unveil a world of playful intimacy and tantalizing sensations with the Kitty Cat Face Mask. Crafted with a blend of elegance and intrigue, this mask adds a touch of mystery to your intimate moments, allowing you to indulge in sensory pleasures while embracing your...Regular price $29.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Buy the Bound to Play Beginners Bondage Kit Black today! Bondage Kit includes: Handcuffs with chain Ankle cuffs with chain Breathable ball gag Collar Leash Blindfold Whip Rope Feather Tickler Nipple Clamps Hog TieRegular price $99.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Buy the Bound to Play Beginners Bondage Kit today! Bondage Kit includes: Handcuffs with chain Ankle cuffs with chain Breathable ball gag Collar Leash Blindfold Whip RopeRegular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Soft and padded for comfort and safety but sturdy for advanced and lengthy bondage play, these cuffs will leave you really Bound. Establish a tone of exquisite pleasure and pain by restraining your partner with these exclusively high quality, durable nubuck leather wrist cuffs....Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Frequently asked questions
What is in the BDSM Gear collection at Lovva?
The BDSM Gear collection covers restraints and handcuffs, blindfolds, gags and muzzles, paddles, floggers, whips and ticklers, collars, harnesses, nipple and clitoral toys, electro sex toys, chastity and cock and ball toys, and complete bondage kits. The range spans every entry point and experience level from beginner kits through to specialist individual pieces for experienced players.
What BDSM gear is best for beginners?
A bondage kit is the best starting point for beginners. Kits bundle essential items together at better value than individual purchases and give you a range of items to explore before committing to a specific play style. A standard beginner kit typically includes wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and a light tickler or flogger. The Lovva blog on how to explore BDSM safely covers the essential groundwork before you begin.
What safety precautions should I follow for restraint play?
Establish a safe word and a physical safe signal before any scene. Always have safety scissors accessible for quick release from restraints. Never leave a restrained person unsupervised. Avoid restraints that cut off circulation and check extremities periodically during longer sessions. Check in regularly with your partner throughout play, especially with new gear or a new partner.
What is the difference between a flogger, a paddle, and a whip?
A flogger has multiple soft tails attached to a handle and delivers a thuddy, distributed sensation across the impact area. A paddle is a flat striking surface that delivers more concentrated impact with a stinging quality. A whip is a single tapered implement that delivers sharp, precise impact at the tip. Floggers are generally the most beginner-friendly impact toy due to the distributed, thuddy sensation. Paddles are more intense. Whips require more skill and care to use safely.
Is electrostimulation safe for BDSM beginners?
Yes with the right approach. Start with a beginner e-stim kit and the lowest intensity setting before increasing. Use only Zeus attachments with Zeus power boxes. Do not use e-stim above the waist except for nipple play at low settings, and never on the head, face, or neck. Do not use if you have a pacemaker or any heart condition. Reading the instructions included with your power box before first use is essential.