Harness
Harnesses are wearable strap systems used in strap-on sex, fetish wear, and BDSM play. They hold a dildo in position against the body for penetrative sex, serve as a structural component of restraint and suspension bondage, or function as a statement piece of fetish apparel in their own right. The Harness collection at Lovva covers strap-on harnesses for all body types, bondage body harnesses, jockstrap and thong harnesses, male harnesses, and packing harnesses for trans and non-binary wearers.
About This Collection
A harness serves a different function depending on how it is used. For strap-on sex, the harness holds the dildo firmly in position during active penetration, distributing the thrust force across the wearer's hips rather than relying on a dildo base alone to stay in place. A harness that fits well and holds securely makes strap-on sex significantly more comfortable and effective for both partners. For bondage and fetish wear, a body harness wraps around the torso, thighs, or full body in a decorative and structural pattern that can be used as an attachment point for restraints or worn as an intimate fashion statement. Both functions are well served by different harness formats, and the right choice depends on the intended use.
What Is in the Collection
O-ring strap-on harnesses are the standard strap-on harness format, using an interchangeable O-ring mount that accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base. Adjustable straps fit around the hips and between the legs to hold the harness firmly in place during sex. Jockstrap and thong harnesses use a more minimal construction with fewer straps, suiting wearers who find full-seat harness designs uncomfortable or restrictive. Strapless harness alternatives hold the dildo using a bulb-shaped insertable end for wearers who want penetration without a harness. Male harnesses are body harnesses designed specifically for male anatomy, worn on the chest, torso, and upper body as fetish apparel. Full body bondage harnesses wrap the torso, chest, and thighs in a decorative strap pattern with D-ring attachment points for use in restraint and suspension bondage. Packing harnesses are minimalist underwear-style harnesses with a built-in pouch designed to hold a packer securely for daily wear. Brands including Strap U, XR Brands, and Sportsheets produce across the range at Lovva.
Find harnesses in the harness and strap-ons collections at Lovva.
Choosing a Harness
Choose an O-ring harness for strap-on sex. An O-ring harness is the most versatile strap-on harness as it accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base. Check that the harness fits the wearer's hip and waist measurements within the adjustable range before ordering. A harness that fits correctly distributes thrust force across the hips without shifting during active sex. Check the O-ring diameter included and whether replacement rings are available in different sizes for dildo compatibility.
Choose a jockstrap or thong harness for comfort in a less structured design. A minimal harness suits wearers who find full-seat harnesses uncomfortable or who want a less bulky option under clothing. These suit both strap-on use and fetish wear contexts depending on the design.
Choose a bondage body harness for fetish wear or restraint play. A body harness worn for aesthetic or bondage purposes should include solid D-ring attachment points if you plan to connect restraint hardware to it. Check the weight rating and construction quality before using any harness as a structural component in suspension or load-bearing bondage.
The Lovva blog on how to introduce toys to a partner covers bringing a harness and strap-on into a relationship for the first time with practical guidance on the conversation and the setup.
Caring for Harnesses
Wash fabric and faux leather harnesses with warm water and mild soap and allow to air dry completely. Do not machine wash harnesses with metal hardware as this can damage D-rings, buckles, and O-rings. Inspect all hardware before every use. Store in a dry location away from direct sunlight. Clean O-rings separately with mild soap and water and allow to dry before reinserting.
Shop Harnesses at Lovva
Lovva stocks a selection of O-ring strap-on harnesses, jockstrap harnesses, bondage body harnesses, packing harnesses, and male harnesses. All orders ship Australia-wide and internationally in discreet, unbranded packaging. Browse the full Harness collection above to find strap-on, fetish, bondage, and packing harness formats for every body type and use case.
Harnesses are wearable strap systems used in strap-on sex, fetish wear, and BDSM play. They hold a dildo in position against the body for penetrative sex, serve as a structural component of restraint and suspension bondage, or function as a...
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Vendor:Experience ultimate comfort and control with this luscious adjustable strap-on harness. Designed to fit UK sizes 6 to 28 (54cm to 130cm with extender), it ensures a secure fit for all body types. The extender doubles as a bondage restraint, adding extra versatility to...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Experience ultimate comfort and control with this luscious adjustable strap-on harness. Designed to fit UK sizes 6 to 28 (54cm to 130cm with extender), it ensures a secure fit for all body types. The extender doubles as a bondage restraint, adding extra versatility to...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Fully adjustable to fit UK sizes 4-30 (waist up to 59"/150cm) 2 interchangeable O-rings for full dildo-compatibility Perfect for pegging or any strap-on fun Bullet pocket to provide external stimulation for wearer Machine washable Material: PVC with Nylon O rings made from SiliconeRegular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Equip yourself with your favourite pleasure tool with the Loving Joy Elastic Harness. Just slip into this one-size-fits-most harness and attach a vibrating or non-vibrating dildo with the help of the sturdy O-ring. Don't get your panties in a twist, get them into position...Regular price $59.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Freedom and Confident Movement This open crotch strap on harness is created for those who want unrestricted access and natural movement during penetration. The leg strap design leaves the crotch open while maintaining stable positioning, allowing greater flexibility and more intimate contact....Regular price $59.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for First Time Pegging Experiences This strap on set is created for couples who are new to pegging and want a gentle and approachable introduction. The petite size and smooth shape help reduce tension while allowing partners to explore penetration with confidence and...Regular price $89.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Comfortable Pegging and Penetration This strap on set is created for those who want to explore pegging or vaginal play with comfort and control. The adjustable harness wraps securely around the waist and thighs, allowing natural movement while maintaining stable positioning during...Regular price $124.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Comfort During Extended Wear This harness system is created to balance structure and softness for long sessions. The X style fabric panels help secure the dildo while reducing friction against the skin, allowing you to move freely without discomfort or chafing. Adjustable...Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed to Shape Support and Stand Out This chest harness is crafted to make an impression while offering structure and balance. The design frames the upper body in a way that highlights natural curves while maintaining a secure feel. The adjustable buckles allow it...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Control Discipline and Focus This chastity harness is built around intention and restraint. Every element works together to keep attention exactly where it belongs. The front metal ring creates a clear focal point while the surrounding straps guide positioning and posture. Once...Regular price $99.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Confident Puppy Play This harness is created for those who enjoy expressive puppy play and want gear that feels as good as it looks. The structured design sits securely on the chest, allowing freedom of movement while maintaining a strong and controlled...Regular price $139.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Bold Ethical Design with Masculine Appeal This vegan bulldog harness is designed for those who want strong visual impact without compromising their values. Crafted from a high quality vegan alternative that closely mimics the look and feel of real leather, it delivers a premium...Regular price $149.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Ethical Design with Bold Masculine Style This vegan bulldog harness is crafted for those who want strong visual impact without compromising on values. Designed with a leather-like material that closely mirrors the look and feel of traditional leather, it delivers a premium aesthetic while...Regular price $149.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed to Command Attention This harness is created for those moments when confidence takes the lead. The triple strap design traces the length of the back and shoulders, drawing the eye inward and framing the chest with intention. Every line is placed to highlight...Regular price $69.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed to Celebrate Plus Size Confidence This plus size multi chain thigh harness is thoughtfully created to honour fuller bodies without restriction. The wide adjustable straps sit securely around the thigh, offering balance and stability while enhancing natural curves. The design feels intentional and...Regular price $154.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Bold Thigh Styling with Confident Presence This multi chain thigh harness is designed to make a statement from every angle. The structured silhouette wraps securely around the thigh, while cascading chains introduce movement and a sense of authority. The balance between form and detail...Regular price $154.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Plus Size Confidence and Control This plus size riding thigh harness is thoughtfully designed to support fuller bodies without restriction or discomfort. The structure sits securely around the thigh, offering stability while allowing natural movement and flexibility. With patterning that considers balance...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Control, Comfort, and Movement This riding thigh harness is thoughtfully crafted to support intimate play that involves motion, positioning, and confident control. The design sits securely around the thigh, offering stability without excessive tightness. By combining structured support with a flexible fit,...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:A Bold Statement of Control and Style This multi-chain collar harness is designed to command attention the moment it is worn. The layered chains drape elegantly across the body, creating a dramatic contrast against the structured black harness. Each element works together to deliver...Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed to Honour Curves with Confidence This plus-size halter harness is thoughtfully shaped to support and enhance fuller bodies without compromise. The design focuses on balance and proportion, allowing the harness to sit comfortably across the shoulders and chest while creating a flattering frame....Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Refined Control with a Confident Silhouette This halter harness is designed to frame the body in a way that feels both commanding and elegant. The structured lines accentuate the shoulders and neckline while creating a balanced, supportive fit across the chest. Whether worn as...Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Secure Support for Strapless Strap On Play This Lovense harness is designed to enhance strapless experiences by keeping your toy firmly and confidently in place. The flexible O ring grips the dildo securely, helping prevent slipping or unwanted movement during thrusting. This added support...Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Two Ways to Experience Pleasure The Pivot Forced-O Strap is designed for versatility, giving you more ways to enjoy intimacy. Use it as a “forced orgasm” strap, securing your wand vibrator snugly against your body for powerful, hands-free stimulation. Or, switch it up by...Regular price $69.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Enhanced Comfort with Deluxe Padding The Pivot Deluxe Doggy Strap is designed with extended oval padding to provide extra cushioning where it matters most. This thoughtful upgrade ensures comfort and stability, making every intimate moment more pleasurable for both partners without unnecessary strain. Secure...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Challenge Your Limits The Heavy Duty Position Master is designed to take bondage play to the next level. By securing the harness over your shoulders and snapping it below your chest, you can explore restraint and positioning that amplifies pleasure and intensity. Perfect Angles...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Introducing our Vegan Bulldog Harness – the epitome of style, comfort, and ethical fashion for the modern gay man. Crafted with meticulous attention to detail, this harness redefines luxury without compromising on your values.Made from a material so close to leather, you won't believe...Regular price $134.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Show off your gorgeous body and share your flair for kink with this chest harness! The top of the harness wraps around the neck to serve as a collar then comes down between the breasts to split off and wrap around to the back....Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:The use of your body is a gift; treat it like one with this bondage harness and wrap up your waist, thighs and wrists like a nice, little package -it even has bows included! Made out of pink, durable PU faux leather, it is...Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Look and feel sexy with this chest harness! It tightens around the neck as a collar and around the ribs and waist to accentuate your curves. The harness leaves the breasts bare to be seen and played with. You can also wear this over...Regular price $94.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Discover the ultimate combination of style and function with our adjustable O-Ring Chest Harness. Crafted from durable vegan leather, this piece mirrors the look and feel of traditional leather. With fully adjustable belt-buckle straps, it guarantees a custom and comfortable fit. The harness features...Regular price $94.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Slender Design for Comfortable Strap On Play This strap on set is designed for those who prefer comfort and control over oversized dimensions. The included slender dildo allows easy entry while still delivering a fulfilling sensation. Its balanced shape makes it suitable for longer...Regular price $154.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Heavy Duty Harness for Strong Thrusting Support This strap on harness is built for durability and stability, designed to stand up to dynamic thrusting and powerful movement. Fully adjustable straps allow you to customise the fit for comfort and secure positioning. The reinforced construction...Regular price $179.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Frequently asked questions
What is a strap-on harness and how does it work?
A strap-on harness holds a dildo in position against the wearer's body during penetrative sex, distributing the thrust force across the hips through an adjustable strap system. The most common format is an O-ring harness with an interchangeable mount that accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base. A properly fitted harness stays in place during active sex and makes strap-on play significantly more comfortable and effective for both partners than a harness that shifts position.
What is an O-ring harness and why is it the most versatile format?
An O-ring harness uses an interchangeable ring mount at the front that accepts any dildo with a flared base fitting the ring diameter. Because the ring is swappable, the same harness can be used with different dildo sizes and shapes without buying a new harness. This makes it the most versatile strap-on harness format. Check the O-ring diameter included with the harness and confirm it matches the base diameter of your chosen dildo before ordering.
What is the difference between a strap-on harness and a bondage body harness?
A strap-on harness is designed specifically to hold a dildo in position for penetrative sex. It fits around the hips and between the legs with a central mounting point. A bondage body harness wraps the torso, chest, and thighs in a decorative strap pattern for fetish wear or bondage use, often with D-ring attachment points for restraint hardware. Some harnesses serve both functions, but most are optimised for one.
What is a packing harness and who uses it?
A packing harness is a minimalist underwear-style harness with a built-in pouch that holds a packer securely against the body during daily wear. It is used by trans men, non-binary people, and gender-diverse individuals who want to wear a realistic penile prosthetic under clothing. Packing harnesses are designed for all-day comfort and a natural silhouette rather than the load-bearing requirements of strap-on sex harnesses.
How do I clean and care for a strap-on harness?
Wash fabric and faux leather harnesses with warm water and mild soap and allow to air dry completely. Do not machine wash harnesses with metal hardware as this damages D-rings, buckles, and O-rings. Inspect all hardware including the O-ring mount, buckles, and adjustment clips before every use. Store in a dry location away from direct sunlight. Clean O-rings separately and allow to dry before reinserting.