Strap-On Dildos
Strap-on dildos are insertable toys specifically designed for use with a harness, allowing one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex regardless of anatomy. They are a core component of queer and lesbian sex, a popular addition to heterosexual couples who want to explore pegging or role reversal, and a practical tool for trans and non-binary people who want a realistic penetration option. The strap-on dildo collection at Lovva covers a full range of sizes, shapes, materials, and designs suited to every body type, experience level, and use case.
About This Collection
Strap-on sex opens up penetrative possibilities that anatomy alone does not provide. For couples where neither partner has a penis, or where one partner's anatomy does not allow penetration, a strap-on makes penetrative sex available on equal terms for both. For heterosexual couples exploring pegging, a strap-on provides the receiving male partner with prostate stimulation that partnered sex does not otherwise deliver. For trans men, a strap-on worn with a harness can serve as a packing and penetration device simultaneously. What connects all these uses is the strap-on dildo: a toy that is firm enough to penetrate, shaped for the purpose, and built to stay in place during active sex.
What Is in the Collection
Realistic strap-on dildos are modelled on the shape and texture of a penis with detailed surface veining, a defined glans, and skin-tone finishes. These suit users who want a naturalistic penetration experience for themselves or their partner. Smooth silicone strap-on dildos use a clean, non-realistic shape that suits users who prefer an abstract aesthetic. Curved strap-on dildos are angled to press against the G-spot or prostate during penetration for targeted internal stimulation. Double-ended and strapless strap-on dildos have an insertable end that the wearing partner holds internally with their pelvic floor muscles while using the external shaft for penetration, providing stimulation for both partners simultaneously without a harness. Slim beginner strap-on dildos have a narrower diameter suited to first-time penetrative use, particularly for anal pegging. Large-format strap-on dildos suit experienced users who want more girth and length. Most products are made from body-safe silicone with a firm yet flexible construction suited to hands-free penetration during active sex. All include a harness-compatible base.
Find strap-on dildos in the strap-on dildos and strap-ons collections at Lovva.
Choosing a Strap-On Dildo
Check harness compatibility before ordering. Most strap-on dildos are designed to fit O-ring harnesses, which accept dildos with a flared base fitting a standard ring diameter. Check the base diameter of the dildo against the O-ring size of your harness before ordering. Some harness systems use a different mounting mechanism, so confirm compatibility on the product page.
Choose size based on the receiving partner's experience level. A slim, beginner dildo is the right starting point for anyone new to strap-on penetration, particularly for anal pegging where the receiving partner may have limited experience with anal toys. Choose a size the receiving partner is confident is within their current comfort range. Average strap-on dildo dimensions for a first experience sit at roughly 14 to 16 centimetres in insertable length and a moderate girth.
Choose a curved dildo for G-spot or prostate stimulation. A curved shaft angled toward the front of the body presses against the G-spot during vaginal penetration or the prostate during anal pegging. This is particularly effective for the receiving partner's orgasm in both contexts.
Consider a strapless design for simultaneous stimulation. A strapless strap-on or double-ended dildo provides internal stimulation for the wearing partner at the same time as the receiving partner, removing the asymmetry of conventional strap-on sex where only the receiving partner experiences penetration.
The Lovva blog on how to introduce toys to a partner covers the conversation around strap-on sex and role exploration thoughtfully and is worth reading before bringing a strap-on into a relationship for the first time.
Using and Caring for Strap-On Dildos
Apply generous water-based lubricant to the shaft before use and reapply as needed. For anal use, apply lubricant to both the dildo and the receiving partner's anal opening and proceed slowly. Rinse with warm water and mild soap after every use. Silicone strap-on dildos can be boiled or run through the dishwasher without detergent for full sterilisation. Allow to dry completely before storing. Use water-based lubricant only with silicone products.
Shop Strap-On Dildos at Lovva
Lovva stocks a wide selection of strap-on dildos across sizes, shapes, and materials. All orders ship Australia-wide and internationally in discreet, unbranded packaging. Browse the full Strap-On Dildos collection above to find the right harness-compatible dildo for your body, your partner, and your preferred experience.
Strap-on dildos are insertable toys specifically designed for use with a harness, allowing one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex regardless of anatomy. They are a core component of queer and lesbian sex, a popular addition...
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Frequently asked questions
What is a strap-on dildo and who uses them?
A strap-on dildo is an insertable toy designed for use with a harness, allowing one partner to wear and use it for penetrative sex regardless of anatomy. They are used by lesbian and queer couples for whom penetration would otherwise not be possible, by heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, and by trans and non-binary people who want a realistic penetration option. They are also used solo with a harness for hands-free use.
How do I choose the right size strap-on dildo?
Choose size based on the receiving partner's experience level and comfort. For first-time strap-on penetration, particularly for anal pegging, choose a slim beginner dildo at a narrower diameter than you think you need. Average first-experience dimensions sit at roughly 14 to 16 centimetres in insertable length at a moderate girth. Always check measurements on the product page before ordering and prioritise the receiving partner's comfort over any other consideration.
What is a strapless strap-on dildo and how does it work?
A strapless strap-on, also called a double-ended dildo, has an insertable bulb at one end that the wearing partner holds internally with their pelvic floor muscles while using the external shaft for penetration. This provides simultaneous internal stimulation for both the wearing and receiving partner without requiring a harness. It removes the asymmetry of conventional strap-on sex where only the receiving partner experiences penetration.
How do I check if a strap-on dildo is compatible with my harness?
Most strap-on dildos are designed for O-ring harnesses. Check the base diameter of the dildo against the O-ring size of your harness before ordering. Standard O-ring harnesses accept dildos with a flared base fitting a 3.5 to 4 centimetre ring diameter, but this varies. Check the product page for base dimensions and harness compatibility details. Some harness systems use a different mounting mechanism, so confirm before purchasing.
How do I clean a strap-on dildo?
Rinse with warm water and mild soap after every use. Silicone strap-on dildos can be boiled or run through the dishwasher without detergent for full sterilisation. Allow to dry completely before storing. Never share strap-on dildos between partners without full sterilisation. Use water-based lubricant only with silicone products.