Introduction
Exploring intimacy together can be one of the most rewarding experiences for couples. Shopping for sex toys as a duo opens the door to enhanced communication, deeper trust, and of course more pleasure. But for many, navigating the world of adult toys together can feel intimidating or overwhelming at first.
This guide will walk you through exactly how to shop for sex toys as a couple, what to consider, and some of the best categories to start with for shared pleasure.
Why Shared Pleasure Matters for Couples
Incorporating sex toys into your relationship isn’t just about adding something new to the bedroom, it’s about exploring together, fostering connection, and opening up new lines of communication.
Couples who use toys together often report:
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Greater intimacy
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Improved understanding of each other’s needs
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More satisfying and adventurous sex lives
By shopping together, both partners feel empowered and engaged in the experience—making it truly shared.
How to Shop Together: Step‑by‑Step
Step 1: Talk Openly About Desires and Boundaries
Start by discussing what excites you both and where your boundaries lie. Are you curious about external stimulation, internal toys, or anal play? What feels like a definite no? What are maybes?
A successful shopping experience begins with clarity and consent.
Step 2: Agree on a Budget and Comfort Level
Determine how much you're comfortable spending and whether you'd prefer to explore beginner-friendly items or invest in something more advanced.
Prices vary depending on quality, features, and materials. For example, silicone-based toys tend to be body-safe and longer-lasting.
Step 3: Explore Toy Categories Made for Two
The sex toy industry is full of exciting options designed specifically for couples. Some of the most popular include:
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Couples Vibrators – Wearable vibrators made for penetrative sex, enhancing both partners’ pleasure.
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Cock Rings – Improve stamina and sensitivity for him while enhancing clitoral stimulation for her. Browse our Cock Rings Collection for options that cater to couples' intimacy.
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App or Remote-Controlled Toys – Ideal for long-distance couples or power-play dynamics. You’ll love our App Remote Controlled Vibrators that allow one partner to control the other’s sensations from anywhere.
Step 4: Choose Body-Safe, Non-Porous Materials
Ensure any toy you select is made of body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or glass. Avoid rubber or jelly materials that may be porous and difficult to clean.
Step 5: Think Practical – Features That Matter
Look for features like:
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Quiet motors
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Waterproof design
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Easy charging (USB)
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Ergonomic shape
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Toy bag or storage pouch
These practical considerations will enhance your overall experience and ease of use.
Top Picks: Toy Types That Elevate Shared Pleasure
Whether you're new to sex toys or already adventurous, these categories can help elevate your intimate connection:
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Couples Vibrators – Designed to be worn during intercourse, these add an extra level of stimulation for both partners.
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Vibrating Cock Rings – Enjoy mutual stimulation with rings that target the clitoris and prolong erection.
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Lubricants – An essential addition to any intimate moment. Explore our Lubes & Wellness Collection for water-based, silicone, warming, or flavored options.
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Toy Kits for Couples – These usually include a mix of massagers, lubes, and other fun accessories for beginners or adventurous couples.
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Anal Toys for Beginners – Consider soft, flexible options if both partners are curious about trying anal play.
Don't forget to check out our full For Couples Collection for curated toys made for two.
How to Use a Toy Together: Tips for Better Connection
Once you’ve selected the perfect toy, make your first experience a memorable one:
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Unbox and test together – Play around with speeds and functions before diving in.
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Start slow – Introduce toys during foreplay to build comfort and arousal.
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Explore positions – Some toys work better with specific positions; don’t be afraid to experiment.
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Check in during play – Ongoing communication ensures both partners feel good and stay connected.
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Clean and store your toys properly – A quick clean after use ensures safety and longevity.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the best intentions, couples can make a few missteps when shopping or using toys:
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Skipping the conversation about boundaries
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Picking a toy based only on one partner’s preference
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Choosing poor-quality or porous materials
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Expecting toys to fix relationship issues
Sex toys are a tool not a solution but when used with communication and respect, they can greatly enhance your intimacy.
Final Thoughts: Shop Together, Play Together
Exploring sex toys together as a couple is more than a shopping trip it's an invitation to deepen your emotional and physical connection.
Whether you're looking for clitoral stimulators, vibrating cock rings, or sleek wearable vibrators, Lovva offers a wide range of safe, exciting options for every couple.
Ready to discover your next favorite experience together? Start browsing now and turn your desires into shared adventures.
FAQs
Q: Is it normal for couples to use sex toys together?
Absolutely! Many couples use toys to explore new sensations and enhance intimacy.
Q: What if one of us is hesitant about using toys?
Start with a conversation and perhaps try something less intimidating like a shared lubricant or massager.
Q: Should we use separate toys or one we share?
You can share, but always clean toys thoroughly. Some couples prefer having personal options too.
Q: Are vibrating rings really for both partners?
Yes—especially vibrating cock rings that stimulate both externally and internally.
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