BDSM Gears
BDSM Gear at Lovva is the complete collection for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism play. Spanning restraints, blindfolds, gags, paddles, floggers, electro sex toys, collars, harnesses, nipple toys, chastity devices, and complete bondage kits, the collection covers every entry point and experience level from curious first-timers through to players building a serious toolkit. Everything in the range is chosen for quality, safety, and the ability to deliver a genuine, consensual experience.
About BDSM Play
BDSM is an umbrella term covering a broad spectrum of consensual power exchange, restraint, sensation, and role dynamic play. What connects the different elements is consent, communication, and the deliberate exploration of sensation and control. At its core, good BDSM play requires trust between participants, clear boundaries, and the knowledge to use each piece of gear safely. The collection at Lovva reflects this: products chosen because they work reliably, instructions that can be followed, and a range accessible enough for beginners while deep enough for experienced players.
What Is in the Collection
Restraints and handcuffs cover wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, under-bed restraint systems, and hogtie connectors in materials from soft fabric and faux leather through to metal. Restraint play is one of the most common entry points into BDSM. Blindfolds and sensory deprivation use the removal of sight to heighten every other sensation. A blindfold is one of the simplest and most effective tools in any BDSM kit. Gags and muzzles restrict vocalisation as part of power exchange scenes, available in ball gag, ring gag, and bit formats. Paddles, floggers, whips, and ticklers cover the impact and sensation play spectrum from light teasing through to more intense impact. Collars and bondage collars function as both a symbolic ownership marker and a functional restraint component in many BDSM dynamics. Harnesses provide full-body or upper-body restraint and aesthetic framing and are used in both bondage and strap-on contexts. Nipple and clitoral toys within the BDSM range focus on sensation play through clamps, suction, and electro stimulation. Electro sex toys from Zeus Electrosex deliver controlled electrical stimulation for a sensation format entirely unlike vibration or pressure. Chastity and cock and ball toys support orgasm denial and power exchange dynamics. Bondage kits bundle multiple items for a complete beginner or intermediate toolkit in a single purchase.
Find BDSM gear in the BDSM gear and bondage kits collections at Lovva.
Choosing BDSM Gear
Start with a bondage kit if you are new to BDSM. Kits bundle the essentials together at better value than buying individual pieces and give you a range of items to explore without committing to a specific play style before you know what you enjoy. A standard beginner kit typically includes wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and a feather tickler or light flogger.
Establish consent, safe words, and boundaries before any scene. This is not optional. A safe word allows the restrained or submissive partner to stop the scene immediately and without ambiguity. A physical safe signal such as dropping a held object should be agreed for situations where a gag is in use. Check in regularly during play, especially with a new partner or a new piece of gear.
Always have safety scissors accessible during restraint play. Safety scissors allow quick, safe release from restraints in any situation. Never leave a restrained person unsupervised. Avoid restraints that restrict circulation and check the skin and extremities periodically during longer sessions.
For electrostimulation, start with a beginner e-stim kit and the lowest intensity setting. Do not use e-stim products above the waist except for nipple play at low settings, and never use on the head, face, or neck. Do not use if you have a pacemaker or heart condition.
The Lovva blog on how to explore BDSM safely is essential reading before beginning any BDSM or restraint play, whether you are new to the space or returning to it with a new partner.
Caring for BDSM Gear
Clean metal restraints and hardware by wiping with isopropyl alcohol or boiling where appropriate. Wipe faux leather and fabric restraints with a damp cloth and mild soap and allow to dry completely before storing. Clean silicone components with warm water and mild soap. Inspect all restraint hardware, buckles, and connectors before every use and do not use any item showing signs of wear, cracking, or weakened connection points. Store gear in a dry location away from direct sunlight.
Shop BDSM Gear at Lovva
Lovva stocks a comprehensive range of BDSM gear across all play categories and experience levels. All orders ship Australia-wide and internationally in discreet, unbranded packaging. Browse the full BDSM Gear collection above to find restraints, sensation play tools, collars, harnesses, electro gear, and complete bondage kits.
BDSM Gear at Lovva is the complete collection for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism play. Spanning restraints, blindfolds, gags, paddles, floggers, electro sex toys, collars, harnesses, nipple toys, chastity devices, and complete bondage kits, the collection covers every...
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Vendor:Elegant Submission with Refined Detail This pearl day collar is designed for those who embrace submission with confidence and style. The combination of smooth faux pearls and a delicate gold chain creates a look that feels luxurious rather than overt, making it ideal for...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Elegant Submission with Everyday Appeal This sheer day collar is created for those who enjoy expressing sensuality through subtle details. The lightweight mesh rests softly against the skin, offering a refined look that feels equally appropriate inside and outside the bedroom. It allows wearers...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Confident Control with a Playful Edge These locking cuffs are made for moments where defiance meets discipline. Crafted with sleek black vegan leather, they wrap securely around the wrists while maintaining comfort during play. The design supports power exchange that feels intentional, inviting teasing...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Playful Power with a Stylish Edge This collar and leash set is designed for those who enjoy bending the rules and exploring playful control. The corset inspired cutouts create a striking look that feels confident rather than intimidating, blending flirtation with authority. It is...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Soft and Cuddly Comfort This plush lips pillow is made with exceptionally soft fabric that feels gentle and comforting to the touch. Designed to be hugged, rested on, or simply enjoyed, it brings a cosy and playful element to your bed or lounge space....Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Luxury Design for Confident Restraint These gold handcuffs are designed for couples who appreciate refined aesthetics alongside dependable performance. The polished anodized metal finish creates a striking visual impact while maintaining a smooth feel against the skin. Their elegant appearance makes them a standout...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Statement Design with Parisian Flair This elegant flogger pairs classic craftsmanship with a bold, fashion-forward look. Crafted from bonded leather and finished with eye-catching iridescent hardware, it delivers a refined appearance that elevates any impact play collection while remaining visually striking. Controlled Sensation with...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Breathable Design with Elegant Control This breathable ball gag is crafted to balance restraint with comfort, allowing focused play without unnecessary restriction. The open airflow design helps maintain relaxed breathing while preserving the intended sense of control and intimacy. Adjustable Fit with Quality Materials...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Glow-in-the-Dark Design for After-Dark Play These glow-in-the-dark handcuffs bring a playful twist to classic restraint styling. Designed with bold fluorescent accents, they create a striking effect once the lights are low, adding atmosphere and visual excitement to intimate moments. The glow effect is easily...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Silky Texture for Comfortable Rope Play This Japanese-style rope is crafted from a smooth, silky material that feels gentle against the skin. Its soft texture helps reduce friction, making it suitable for extended use while maintaining comfort. The rope drapes easily and feels refined...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Elegant Design with Statement Appeal This refined flogger combines visual sophistication with purposeful design. Crafted from bonded leather and finished with eye-catching iridescent hardware, it delivers a high-fashion look that elevates any impact play collection. Its polished appearance makes it as appealing to display...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Breathable Design with Confident Control This breathable ball gag is designed to balance restraint with comfort, allowing controlled play without unnecessary restriction. The perforated silicone ball supports easier airflow, helping the wearer remain relaxed and comfortable while maintaining the intended sense of control and...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Bold Design with Statement Appeal This elegant paddle is crafted for those who appreciate both performance and presentation. The combination of firm bonded leather and eye-catching iridescent hardware creates a striking aesthetic that stands out instantly. Its refined look makes it as visually appealing...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Power Exchange and Playful Control This restraint accessory is created for couples who enjoy exploring control, trust, and anticipation. Whether taking the lead or surrendering it, the design supports a wide range of roleplay scenarios that focus on connection rather than complexity....Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Fashion Meets Intimate Expression This refined accessory is designed to blur the line between high fashion and sensual confidence. Inspired by couture styling, it brings a bold yet polished look that feels equally at home on the runway or in more intimate settings. The...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Comfort Focused Design for Confident Play This bondage rope is designed to prioritise comfort while allowing creative freedom. The soft polyester fibre feels gentle against the skin, helping reduce irritation during use. Its lightweight construction makes it easy to handle, tie, and adjust, supporting...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Comfortable Control for Bondage Exploration This soft touch bondage rope is designed to balance control with comfort, making it ideal for a wide range of play styles. The smooth polyester surface feels gentle against the skin, allowing restraint without irritation while still providing reliable...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Confident Bondage Play This breathable ball gag is created for those who enjoy control, restraint, and heightened anticipation during bondage scenes. Its design focuses on maintaining comfort while reinforcing power dynamics, making it suitable for extended play sessions. The smooth ball rests...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Bold Thigh Styling with Confident Presence This multi chain thigh harness is designed to make a statement from every angle. The structured silhouette wraps securely around the thigh, while cascading chains introduce movement and a sense of authority. The balance between form and detail...Regular price $154.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Plus Size Confidence and Control This plus size riding thigh harness is thoughtfully designed to support fuller bodies without restriction or discomfort. The structure sits securely around the thigh, offering stability while allowing natural movement and flexibility. With patterning that considers balance...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Control, Comfort, and Movement This riding thigh harness is thoughtfully crafted to support intimate play that involves motion, positioning, and confident control. The design sits securely around the thigh, offering stability without excessive tightness. By combining structured support with a flexible fit,...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Plus Size Confidence and Presence This plus size collar harness is designed with intention, ensuring fuller bodies are supported rather than restricted. The structure frames the neckline and upper body while allowing the harness to sit comfortably without pulling or digging. Every...Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:A Bold Statement of Control and Style This multi-chain collar harness is designed to command attention the moment it is worn. The layered chains drape elegantly across the body, creating a dramatic contrast against the structured black harness. Each element works together to deliver...Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Refined Control with a Confident Silhouette This halter harness is designed to frame the body in a way that feels both commanding and elegant. The structured lines accentuate the shoulders and neckline while creating a balanced, supportive fit across the chest. Whether worn as...Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Secure Support for Strapless Strap On Play This Lovense harness is designed to enhance strapless experiences by keeping your toy firmly and confidently in place. The flexible O ring grips the dildo securely, helping prevent slipping or unwanted movement during thrusting. This added support...Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Hands Free Power in a Compact Design Lovense Mini Sex Machine is built for those who want serious thrusting power without the bulk of a full size machine. Despite its sleek and space saving design, it delivers strong rhythmic penetration that feels controlled and...Regular price $649.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Experience Next Level Hands Free Pleasure The Lovense Sex Machine is built for those who want complete surrender to sensation without holding back. Its powerful motor delivers consistent thrusting that feels controlled, deep, and endlessly satisfying. Whether you prefer slow teasing movements or strong...Regular price $1,749.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Engineered for Comfort and Control This adjustable sex swing is crafted to elevate intimate exploration by blending comfort, support, and control in one premium design. The wide, cushioned straps contour naturally to your body, allowing you to relax fully while staying securely positioned. Whether...Regular price $349.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Comfortable Restraint for Intimate Exploration These padded cuffs offer a beautifully balanced way to experience restraint, blending soft comfort with secure control. Designed for couples who enjoy exploring sensual tension, they sit gently around the wrists or ankles while keeping every moment safe, intimate...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Turn Your Bed into a Space of Sensual Discovery This under the bed restraint system creates a seamless way to explore control, anticipation and intimate surrender. With its simple design and discreet setup, it transforms any mattress into a private space where couples can...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Frequently asked questions
What is in the BDSM Gear collection at Lovva?
The BDSM Gear collection covers restraints and handcuffs, blindfolds, gags and muzzles, paddles, floggers, whips and ticklers, collars, harnesses, nipple and clitoral toys, electro sex toys, chastity and cock and ball toys, and complete bondage kits. The range spans every entry point and experience level from beginner kits through to specialist individual pieces for experienced players.
What BDSM gear is best for beginners?
A bondage kit is the best starting point for beginners. Kits bundle essential items together at better value than individual purchases and give you a range of items to explore before committing to a specific play style. A standard beginner kit typically includes wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and a light tickler or flogger. The Lovva blog on how to explore BDSM safely covers the essential groundwork before you begin.
What safety precautions should I follow for restraint play?
Establish a safe word and a physical safe signal before any scene. Always have safety scissors accessible for quick release from restraints. Never leave a restrained person unsupervised. Avoid restraints that cut off circulation and check extremities periodically during longer sessions. Check in regularly with your partner throughout play, especially with new gear or a new partner.
What is the difference between a flogger, a paddle, and a whip?
A flogger has multiple soft tails attached to a handle and delivers a thuddy, distributed sensation across the impact area. A paddle is a flat striking surface that delivers more concentrated impact with a stinging quality. A whip is a single tapered implement that delivers sharp, precise impact at the tip. Floggers are generally the most beginner-friendly impact toy due to the distributed, thuddy sensation. Paddles are more intense. Whips require more skill and care to use safely.
Is electrostimulation safe for BDSM beginners?
Yes with the right approach. Start with a beginner e-stim kit and the lowest intensity setting before increasing. Use only Zeus attachments with Zeus power boxes. Do not use e-stim above the waist except for nipple play at low settings, and never on the head, face, or neck. Do not use if you have a pacemaker or any heart condition. Reading the instructions included with your power box before first use is essential.