Strap-Ons
Strap-ons are harness and dildo systems that allow one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex, regardless of anatomy. Used by lesbian and queer couples, heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, trans and non-binary people who want a realistic penetration option, and solo users who want hands-free dildo use, the strap-on is one of the most versatile and inclusive product categories in adult toys. The Strap-Ons collection at Lovva includes complete harness and dildo kits, harnesses sold separately, strap-on compatible dildos, strapless designs, and accessories for every body type and use case.
About This Collection
A strap-on system has two components: the harness, which holds the dildo in place against the body, and the dildo, which provides the penetration. Some kits bundle both together. Others sell them separately so buyers can match the harness style and the dildo format to their specific preferences. Getting both components right matters: a harness that fits poorly loses position during active sex, and a dildo that is the wrong size for the receiving partner's experience level makes the experience uncomfortable rather than pleasurable. The Lovva strap-on collection is stocked with options that address both sides of this equation.
What Is in the Collection
Complete strap-on kits bundle a harness with one or more compatible dildos, providing everything needed to start using a strap-on in a single purchase. These suit first-time buyers who want a matched, ready-to-use system. O-ring harnesses are the most common harness format, using an interchangeable O-ring mount that accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base. The ring size can be swapped out to suit different dildo diameters. Jockstrap and thong harnesses have a more minimal construction that suits different body types and wearers who find full-seat harness designs uncomfortable. Strapless strap-ons hold themselves in place through insertion of a bulb-shaped end into the vagina, eliminating the harness entirely and providing simultaneous internal stimulation for the wearing partner. Packing harnesses are designed specifically for everyday packer wear, including options that accommodate STP devices. Strap-on compatible dildos are available separately for buyers who already have a harness and want to add dildo options. Brands including Strap U and XR Brands produce extensively in this category at Lovva.
Find strap-ons in the strap-ons and for couples collections at Lovva.
Choosing a Strap-On
Choose a complete kit if you are buying your first strap-on. A kit removes the compatibility guesswork by pairing a harness and dildo that are designed to work together. Read the kit description carefully to check the dildo size included and whether it suits the receiving partner's experience level.
Choose an O-ring harness if you want dildo flexibility. An O-ring harness accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base, giving you the freedom to use different dildo sizes and shapes with the same harness. Check the O-ring diameter included and available as a swap to confirm compatibility with the dildos you want to use.
Choose a strapless strap-on for simultaneous stimulation without a harness. A strapless strap-on provides internal stimulation for the wearing partner at the same time as the receiving partner, removing the asymmetry of conventional strap-on sex. Strapless designs require some pelvic floor strength to stay in position during vigorous use, which takes practice to develop.
Size the dildo to the receiving partner's experience. A beginner receiving partner should start with a slim dildo, particularly for anal pegging. The wearing partner's preferences are secondary to the receiving partner's comfort when choosing size for the first time. Start smaller than you think you need and progress from there.
The Lovva blog on how to introduce toys to a partner is essential reading for anyone bringing a strap-on into a relationship for the first time, covering the conversation around role dynamics, preferences, and boundaries clearly.
Caring for Strap-Ons
Wash harnesses with warm water and mild soap and allow to air dry. Do not machine wash harnesses with metal hardware as this can damage the fittings. Clean silicone dildos with warm water and mild soap, or boil for full sterilisation. Store dildos separately from harnesses in a clean, dry location. Apply generous water-based lubricant to all silicone dildo surfaces before use and reapply as needed.
Shop Strap-Ons at Lovva
Lovva stocks a wide selection of strap-on harnesses, dildo kits, and compatible accessories. All orders ship Australia-wide and internationally in discreet, unbranded packaging. Browse the full Strap-Ons collection above to find complete kits, harnesses, and dildos for every body type and experience level.
Strap-ons are harness and dildo systems that allow one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex, regardless of anatomy. Used by lesbian and queer couples, heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, trans and non-binary people who...
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Vendor:Introducing the Mina Surge Remote Thrusting and Vibrating Strapless Strap-On, a versatile and innovative pleasure device designed for ultimate satisfaction. With remote control capability, you can effortlessly switch between its 3 thrusting modes and 10 vibrating modes for a customizable experience. Equipped with 3...Regular price $244.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:THE BOSS STUB stands out with a bold length of about 17.8 cm and a deeply satisfying 4.1 cm diameter – perfect for those craving intense pleasure. Its naturally contoured tip targets the G‑spot or anus with precision, delivering powerful, fulfilling sensations with every...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Realistic Soft Shaft for Authentic Penetration Sensation This soft strap on dildo is designed to deliver lifelike satisfaction with a realistic shaft and supple glans that create natural movement during thrusting. The odorless TPE material offers a smooth, skin like feel that enhances comfort...Regular price $84.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for First Time Pegging Experiences This strap on set is created for couples who are new to pegging and want a gentle and approachable introduction. The petite size and smooth shape help reduce tension while allowing partners to explore penetration with confidence and...Regular price $89.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Frequently asked questions
What is a strap-on and who uses them?
A strap-on is a harness and dildo system that allows one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex regardless of anatomy. They are used by lesbian and queer couples, heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, trans and non-binary people who want a realistic penetration option, and solo users who want hands-free dildo use. Brands including Strap U and XR Brands produce extensively in this category at Lovva.
What is the difference between an O-ring harness and a strapless strap-on?
An O-ring harness uses an interchangeable ring mount that accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base, giving you the freedom to swap dildos of different sizes and shapes with the same harness. A strapless strap-on holds itself in place through a bulb-shaped insertable end inside the vagina, eliminating the harness entirely and providing simultaneous internal stimulation for the wearing partner. Strapless designs require some pelvic floor strength to stay in position during use.
What size dildo should I choose for a strap-on kit?
Size the dildo to the receiving partner's experience level rather than the wearing partner's preferences. A beginner receiving partner, particularly for anal pegging, should start with a slim dildo at a narrower diameter. The first strap-on experience should prioritise the receiving partner's comfort. Start smaller than you think you need and work up to larger sizes gradually as both partners become comfortable with the format.
How do I check if a dildo is compatible with my harness?
Most strap-on harnesses use an O-ring mount. Check the O-ring diameter of your harness and compare it to the base diameter of the dildo. The dildo's base needs to be larger than the O-ring opening to stay secured. Most dildo bases are designed for standard O-ring sizes but check both measurements on the product pages before ordering. Some harnesses include interchangeable O-rings in different sizes to expand compatibility.
How do I clean a strap-on harness and dildo?
Wash harnesses with warm water and mild soap and allow to air dry. Do not machine wash harnesses with metal hardware. Clean silicone dildos with warm water and mild soap or boil for full sterilisation. Allow everything to dry completely before storing. Apply generous water-based lubricant to all silicone dildo surfaces before use. Store dildos separately from harnesses to prevent surface transfer.