Strap-Ons
Strap-ons are harness and dildo systems that allow one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex, regardless of anatomy. Used by lesbian and queer couples, heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, trans and non-binary people who want a realistic penetration option, and solo users who want hands-free dildo use, the strap-on is one of the most versatile and inclusive product categories in adult toys. The Strap-Ons collection at Lovva includes complete harness and dildo kits, harnesses sold separately, strap-on compatible dildos, strapless designs, and accessories for every body type and use case.
About This Collection
A strap-on system has two components: the harness, which holds the dildo in place against the body, and the dildo, which provides the penetration. Some kits bundle both together. Others sell them separately so buyers can match the harness style and the dildo format to their specific preferences. Getting both components right matters: a harness that fits poorly loses position during active sex, and a dildo that is the wrong size for the receiving partner's experience level makes the experience uncomfortable rather than pleasurable. The Lovva strap-on collection is stocked with options that address both sides of this equation.
What Is in the Collection
Complete strap-on kits bundle a harness with one or more compatible dildos, providing everything needed to start using a strap-on in a single purchase. These suit first-time buyers who want a matched, ready-to-use system. O-ring harnesses are the most common harness format, using an interchangeable O-ring mount that accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base. The ring size can be swapped out to suit different dildo diameters. Jockstrap and thong harnesses have a more minimal construction that suits different body types and wearers who find full-seat harness designs uncomfortable. Strapless strap-ons hold themselves in place through insertion of a bulb-shaped end into the vagina, eliminating the harness entirely and providing simultaneous internal stimulation for the wearing partner. Packing harnesses are designed specifically for everyday packer wear, including options that accommodate STP devices. Strap-on compatible dildos are available separately for buyers who already have a harness and want to add dildo options. Brands including Strap U and XR Brands produce extensively in this category at Lovva.
Find strap-ons in the strap-ons and for couples collections at Lovva.
Choosing a Strap-On
Choose a complete kit if you are buying your first strap-on. A kit removes the compatibility guesswork by pairing a harness and dildo that are designed to work together. Read the kit description carefully to check the dildo size included and whether it suits the receiving partner's experience level.
Choose an O-ring harness if you want dildo flexibility. An O-ring harness accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base, giving you the freedom to use different dildo sizes and shapes with the same harness. Check the O-ring diameter included and available as a swap to confirm compatibility with the dildos you want to use.
Choose a strapless strap-on for simultaneous stimulation without a harness. A strapless strap-on provides internal stimulation for the wearing partner at the same time as the receiving partner, removing the asymmetry of conventional strap-on sex. Strapless designs require some pelvic floor strength to stay in position during vigorous use, which takes practice to develop.
Size the dildo to the receiving partner's experience. A beginner receiving partner should start with a slim dildo, particularly for anal pegging. The wearing partner's preferences are secondary to the receiving partner's comfort when choosing size for the first time. Start smaller than you think you need and progress from there.
The Lovva blog on how to introduce toys to a partner is essential reading for anyone bringing a strap-on into a relationship for the first time, covering the conversation around role dynamics, preferences, and boundaries clearly.
Caring for Strap-Ons
Wash harnesses with warm water and mild soap and allow to air dry. Do not machine wash harnesses with metal hardware as this can damage the fittings. Clean silicone dildos with warm water and mild soap, or boil for full sterilisation. Store dildos separately from harnesses in a clean, dry location. Apply generous water-based lubricant to all silicone dildo surfaces before use and reapply as needed.
Shop Strap-Ons at Lovva
Lovva stocks a wide selection of strap-on harnesses, dildo kits, and compatible accessories. All orders ship Australia-wide and internationally in discreet, unbranded packaging. Browse the full Strap-Ons collection above to find complete kits, harnesses, and dildos for every body type and experience level.
Strap-ons are harness and dildo systems that allow one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex, regardless of anatomy. Used by lesbian and queer couples, heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, trans and non-binary people who...
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Vendor:Comfortable Strap On Design for Shared Play This set is designed to make partnered play feel intuitive and comfortable. The adjustable harness allows a secure fit that stays in place during movement, helping maintain control and confidence without unnecessary pressure or discomfort. Beginner Friendly...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Strapless Design Made for Connection This thoughtfully curved strapless design is created to bring sensation to both partners at the same time. Its balanced shape allows it to stay comfortably in place during movement, encouraging closeness and shared rhythm without the need for straps...Regular price $139.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Comfort and Control This wearable hollow strap on is thoughtfully shaped to balance realism with comfort. The silky smooth shaft glides easily while the tapered crown head supports natural movement and confidence during play. Its hollow structure allows compatibility with inserts or...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Shared Pleasure and Control This vibrating hollow strap-on is built for couples who enjoy combining presence, stimulation, and control. The hollow interior allows a comfortable fit while adding noticeable length and girth, supporting endurance and confidence during partnered experiences. Its design balances...Regular price $144.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed to Enhance Confidence and Connection This hollow strap on harness is created for those looking to amplify sensation while maintaining comfort and control. The hollow shaft design allows the wearer to feel more connected during use, while adding extra length to enhance penetration....Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Simple and Comfortable Solo Pleasure This handheld stroker is created for users who prefer a straightforward, comfortable experience without unnecessary complexity. Its compact shape fits naturally in the hand, allowing you to control speed, pressure, and rhythm with ease. The design focuses...Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Triple Motor Power for Intense G Spot Pleasure Lovense Lapis is designed for those who crave deeper internal stimulation that feels focused and powerful. Three internal motors are positioned along the shaft to deliver waves of sensation that travel directly to the G spot....Regular price $279.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Double the Connection, Double the Fun The Dual Desires Strap-On Harness is designed for couples who want to experience deeper closeness, more variety, and shared satisfaction. Its dual O-ring system allows you to use two toys at the same time, opening the door to...Regular price $49.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Real Feel, Real Confidence The Vibrating RealRock Hollow Strap-On with Balls is crafted to deliver a natural, confidence-boosting experience for both partners. Its realistic shaft, smooth texture, and lifelike movement create sensations that feel incredibly authentic. Whether you are exploring role reversal, extending stamina,...Regular price $94.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Revolutionary Comfort Meets Realistic Design This hollow silicone strap-on brings a new level of realism and comfort to intimate play. With its dual-density construction, it features a soft outer layer that feels natural to the touch while a firm inner core maintains shape and...Regular price From $74.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Realistic Pleasure for Every Body This adjustable strap-on harness is created for those who want a combination of comfort, stability, and lifelike sensation when paired with a realistic dildo. The design allows you to experience natural movement and full control, whether exploring shared intimacy...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Comfort You Can Trust in Every Moment This adjustable strap-on harness is crafted for those who want a secure, comfortable, and effortless fit. Its shape adapts naturally to your body, offering a smooth and confident feel whether you are exploring new experiences or enhancing...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Embrace a New Level of Intimacy This vibrating hollow strap-on is crafted to bring comfort, confidence, and connection into every intimate moment. Its natural shape and smooth texture mimic the feel of a real body, helping couples explore new sensations while strengthening closeness. Whether...Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Confidence Meets Connection This vibrating hollow strap-on invites you to explore intimacy with renewed confidence. The realistic shaft mirrors the natural look and feel of the body, offering a lifelike experience that enhances every movement. The hollow core provides supportive flexibility, giving users who...Regular price $79.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Realistic Design for Intense Pleasure This strap-on is crafted to deliver an incredibly lifelike and immersive experience. The hollow, veined shaft mirrors natural anatomy, allowing every movement to feel deeper, fuller, and more realistic. The soft TPR glans creates gentle stimulation with each thrust,...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Lifelike Pleasure for Every Body The Dr. Skin 6 Inch Hollow Strap-On blends realism, comfort, and versatility to create a truly satisfying intimate experience. The smooth textured shaft is designed to mimic the natural contours of the body, offering a lifelike feel that enhances...Regular price $49.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Experience Realistic Squirting Fun Take your fantasies to the next level with this ultra-realistic squirting dildo designed for immersive, lifelike pleasure. Made from soft, body-safe TPE, it mirrors the look and feel of real skin, complete with detailed veins, natural texture, and a squeezable...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Discover the Legend of Glo-Spot Born from fire and starlight in the world of The New Nation, Glo-Spot is the myth made tangible. Whispered to descend from wolfen origins, this radiant companion glows as darkness falls, capturing the essence of untamed desire. Every curve,...Regular price $104.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Crafted for Realistic Pleasure Declan delivers the lifelike sensation you crave, combining a soft liquid-silicone exterior with a firm inner core for incredible realism. The dual-density design moves naturally with your body, offering the perfect balance of flexibility and support for deep, satisfying pleasure....Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Join the Mission of Pleasure Step into a world of secret seduction with The Secret Agent from Coverboy. Every curve, ridge, and detail has been crafted to replicate the look and feel of the real thing. Whether you’re flying solo or exploring with a...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:The Doctor of Desire Your appointment has arrived — and pleasure is guaranteed. Dr. Lucas is expertly crafted to deliver a lifelike experience with a fully flexible, poseable shaft that moves with your body and holds any angle you crave. With its realistic contours,...Regular price $39.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Enter the Realm of Fantasy and Pleasure Indulge in the world of fantasy-inspired passion with the WhipSmart Dragon’s Lair Strap-On Harness Kit. This mesmerising set is designed to ignite your imagination and elevate your intimate moments. The star of this kit — the 7”...Regular price $109.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Explore New Sensations Together Step into the exciting world of strap-on and sensory play with the 4-Piece Beginner Strap-On Set. Designed for couples curious to explore dominance, submission, and connection, this complete kit offers everything you need for a playful and intimate experience. With...Regular price $124.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Playful Intimacy in the Dark Bring excitement and laughter into your intimate moments with the Glow-in-the-Dark 5” Beginner Strap-On. Designed for couples of any gender, this fun and accessible set adds a touch of lighthearted adventure to your play. The luminous dildo glows softly...Regular price $59.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Luxury Meets Power Step into refined control with the Velvet Noir Strap-On Harness, where bold design meets sensual sophistication. Wrapped in premium marbled faux leather and finished with hematite hardware, this harness captures the perfect balance of luxury and confidence. Designed for those who...Regular price $44.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Hands-Free Freedom and Creative Pleasure The Pivot™ Flex Foot Strap-On transforms the way you experience solo or partner penetration by combining comfort, flexibility, and control in one intuitive design. Created for users who value versatility or have limited mobility, this groundbreaking harness attaches to...Regular price $49.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Designed for Comfort and Creative Control Push the boundaries of pleasure with the Pivot™ In Your Face Neoprene Strap-On. Created for those who crave deeper connection and adventurous intimacy, this innovative strap-on is made from premium dual-layer neoprene — a soft, flexible material that...Regular price $49.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Empowered Elegance and Unmatched Control Embrace your power and sensuality with the High-Waisted Corset Strap-On Harness, a stunning blend of sophistication, comfort, and performance. This beautifully structured harness combines a body-sculpting fit with premium materials to create the perfect balance between dominance and grace....Regular price $74.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Confidence Meets Control Step into power and poise with the Aurora High-Waisted Strap-On Harness — a statement piece crafted for those who command both comfort and authority. This high-rise design accentuates your natural curves while giving you unmatched stability during play. The elevated waistline...Regular price $69.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Play Longer in Complete Comfort Push your limits with the Breathable Strap-On Harness — designed for power, control, and all-day comfort. Crafted from premium lightweight mesh fabric, this innovative harness keeps you cool even during the most heated sessions. The breathable texture allows air...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Perfect Start to Strap-On Exploration Step confidently into the world of strap-on play with the Beginner’s Strap-On with Adjustable Straps. This carefully designed set is perfect for those new to harness play, offering a balance of simplicity, comfort, and reliability. Its slender silicone dildo...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Vendor:Confidence and Comfort Combined Experience true performance and pleasure with the RealRock Hollow Strap-On. Designed to add both length and girth, this premium strap-on delivers an authentic feel and natural movement, helping you stay confident and connected with your partner. Whether you’re looking to...Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price per
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Frequently asked questions
What is a strap-on and who uses them?
A strap-on is a harness and dildo system that allows one partner to wear and use a dildo for penetrative sex regardless of anatomy. They are used by lesbian and queer couples, heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role reversal, trans and non-binary people who want a realistic penetration option, and solo users who want hands-free dildo use. Brands including Strap U and XR Brands produce extensively in this category at Lovva.
What is the difference between an O-ring harness and a strapless strap-on?
An O-ring harness uses an interchangeable ring mount that accepts any dildo with a compatible flared base, giving you the freedom to swap dildos of different sizes and shapes with the same harness. A strapless strap-on holds itself in place through a bulb-shaped insertable end inside the vagina, eliminating the harness entirely and providing simultaneous internal stimulation for the wearing partner. Strapless designs require some pelvic floor strength to stay in position during use.
What size dildo should I choose for a strap-on kit?
Size the dildo to the receiving partner's experience level rather than the wearing partner's preferences. A beginner receiving partner, particularly for anal pegging, should start with a slim dildo at a narrower diameter. The first strap-on experience should prioritise the receiving partner's comfort. Start smaller than you think you need and work up to larger sizes gradually as both partners become comfortable with the format.
How do I check if a dildo is compatible with my harness?
Most strap-on harnesses use an O-ring mount. Check the O-ring diameter of your harness and compare it to the base diameter of the dildo. The dildo's base needs to be larger than the O-ring opening to stay secured. Most dildo bases are designed for standard O-ring sizes but check both measurements on the product pages before ordering. Some harnesses include interchangeable O-rings in different sizes to expand compatibility.
How do I clean a strap-on harness and dildo?
Wash harnesses with warm water and mild soap and allow to air dry. Do not machine wash harnesses with metal hardware. Clean silicone dildos with warm water and mild soap or boil for full sterilisation. Allow everything to dry completely before storing. Apply generous water-based lubricant to all silicone dildo surfaces before use. Store dildos separately from harnesses to prevent surface transfer.